There are several steps that must be completed before you can
file for a divorce in New York State.
Residency
Requirements
First, you must satisfy the residency requirements set forth
in Domestic Relations Law §230. To file for a divorce in New York you must
satisfy one of the following residency requirements:
1)The marriage ceremony was performed in New York State and
either spouse was a resident of the state at the time of the commencement of the
action and resided continuously in this state for one year immediately before
the action began;
OR
2)The couple lived as husband and wife in this state and
either one is a resident thereof and resided in this state for a continuous
period of one year immediately prior to the commencement of the action;
OR
3)The grounds for divorce occurred in this state and either
party is a resident thereof and lived in this state for a continuous period of
one year prior to commencement of the action;
OR
4)The grounds for divorce occurred in this state and both
parties are New York residents at the time the action is commenced;
OR
5)If you and your spouse were married outside of New York and
you never lived together as husband and wife in this state and the grounds for
divorce did not occur in this state -- either you or your spouse must presently
be a resident of New York State and have resided continuously in the state for
at least two years prior to bringing this case.
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Serving the Summons and Complaint
Second, you must ensure that the court has jurisdiction over
your spouse (the Defendant) by arranging for him or her to be served with a
Summons and Complaint or a Summons With Notice.
Step 1: Your divorce action begins when you purchase an index
number and file the summons with the County Clerk’s office.
Step 2: Your spouse must then be served with a copy of the summons by being
personally given the document. It is important to determine where your spouse is
located. If he or she lives in New York State, the server must be a resident of
New York State, over eighteen years of age, and CANNOT be a party to the action
(this means you may not serve your spouse with the summons).
If your spouse is presently residing outside of New York
State you must still ensure that he or she is personally served with the
summons. It is preferable to have this service accomplished by a New York
resident, although this might be costly. If you use a non-New York State
resident to serve your spouse outside of the State, the server must be a
qualified attorney, solicitor or the equivalent in that state or nation.
Otherwise the person must be authorized to serve papers pursuant to the laws of
that state.
The person that serves the papers must fill out a notarized
affidavit of service as proof that the server did indeed serve the papers. This
document will be addressed later in this information packet.
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Grounds for
Divorce
Finally, you must satisfy one of the grounds for divorce set
forth in Domestic Relations Law §170.
There are six grounds for divorce in New York. In order to
prevail in an action for divorce, certain elements must be proved. Failure to
prove the elements required for a divorce results in the action being
dismissed.
The six grounds are as follows:
1. The cruel and inhuman treatment of plaintiff by the defendant such that
the conduct of the defendant so endangers the physical or mental well being
of the plaintiff as renders it unsafe or improper for the plaintiff to
cohabit with the defendant.
There is no precise definition of the type on conduct that warrants a court
in granting a divorce based on cruel and inhuman treatment. Each case is
decided on its own facts. Verbal abuse, as well as physical abuse, can
constitute cruelty provided the conduct is such that it renders it unsafe or
improper for the parties to cohabit. In the case of Brady v. Brady, 64 NY2d
339 (1985), the Court of Appeals said that in a marriage of long duration a
high degree of proof is needed to dissolve a marriage on the grounds of
cruel and inhuman treatment.
2. The abandonment of the plaintiff by the defendant for a period of one or
more years.
Actual abandonment consists of the unjustified leaving of the marital home
by one of the parties. If one of the parties leaves the marital home with
the consent of the other party, there is no abandonment. Another form of
abandonment is constructive abandonment, which is the unjustified refusal to
engage in sexual relations with the other party. Again, if both parties
consent to not engage in sexual relations, there is no constructive
abandonment by either party. At the time of the commencement of the action,
the abandonment must be one full year.
3. The confinement of the defendant in prison for a period of three or more
consecutive years after the marriage of plaintiff and defendant.
At the time that a party commences a divorce action on this ground, the
defendant must have been confined in prison for three consecutive years.
Being sentenced to more than three years in prison does not give rise to a
cause of action. The cause of action does not arise until three years of
confinement has elapsed.
4. The commission of an act of adultery, provided that adultery for the
purposes of articles 10, 11 and 11-A of this chapter, is hereby defined as
the commission of an act of sexual or deviate sexual intercourse,
voluntarily performed by the defendant, with a person other than the
plaintiff after the marriage of plaintiff and defendant. Deviate sexual
intercourse includes, but not limited to, sexual conduct as defined in
subdivision 2 of Section 130.00 and subdivision 3 of Section 130.20 of the
penal law.
Adultery has been a ground for divorce since legislative divorce was enacted
in 1787. Until the Divorce Reform Law in 1966, effective in 1967, it was the
sole ground for divorce.
Adultery can be proved by direct evidence or circumstantial evidence.
Adultery cannot be proved by the confession of the party alone. Also, a
spouse cannot prove adultery by his/her direct testimony, since Section 4502
of the Civil Practice Law and Rules provides that a spouse is incompetent to
testify against the other spouse in a divorce founded upon adultery.
Section 171 of the Domestic Relations Law provides for 4 affirmative
defenses to a divorce action based on adultery. An affirmative defense is
one that must be pleaded. If proved, an affirmative defense results in the
dismissal of the divorce action. The 4 affirmative defenses are:
1. Procurement or connivance. Procurement is the
encouragement of adultery. Connivance is the consent to the adultery.
2. Forgiveness. A resumption of sexual relations after discovery of the
adultery results in forgiveness (condonation).
3. Statute of limitations. A divorce action founded on adultery must be
brought within 5 years of the discovery of the adultery.
4. Recrimination. This defense means that if the plaintiff is also
guilty of adultery, he/she will not be granted a divorce.
5. The husband and wife have lived apart pursuant to a decree
or judgment of separation for a period of one or more years after the granting
of such decree or judgment, and satisfactory proof has been submitted by the
plaintiff that he or she has substantially performed all the terms and
conditions of such decree or judgment.
This ground for divorce is known as a "conversion divorce". If, after a judgment
of separation has been granted, the parties live separate and apart for one or
more years, either party may commence a divorce action based on the judgment of
separation. The party commencing the action must allege and prove that he/she
has substantially performed all of the terms and conditions of the judgment.
Section 200 of the Domestic Relations Law sets forth the grounds for a judicial
separation.
6.
The husband and wife have lived separate and apart pursuant
to a written agreement of separation, subscribed by the parties thereto and
acknowledged or proved in the form required to entitle a deed to be recorded,
for a period of one or more years after the execution of such agreement and
satisfactory proof has been submitted by the plaintiff that he or she has
substantially performed all of the terms and conditions of such agreement. Such
agreement shall be filed in the office of the clerk of the county wherein either
party resides. In lieu of filing such agreement, either party to such agreement
may file a memorandum of such agreement, which memorandum shall be similarly
subscribed and acknowledged or proved as was the agreement of separation and
shall contain the following information: (a) the names and addresses of each of
the parties, (b) the date of marriage of the parties, (c) the date of the
agreement of separation, and (d) the date of the subscription and acknowledgment
or proof of such agreement of separation.
This ground for divorce is also known as a "conversion" divorce. If, after the
execution of a separation agreement, the parties live separate and apart for one
or more years, either party may commence an action for divorce based upon the
separation agreement. The party commencing the divorce action must allege and
prove that he/she has substantially performed all of the terms and conditions of
the agreement. This ground is also referred to as a "no fault" ground since the
divorce is not based on fault but the living separate and apart for one or more
years. However, the execution of a separation agreement is a voluntary act of
the parties, i.e., one cannot be forced to sign a separation agreement. Of
course, even after the execution of a separation agreement is a voluntary act of
the parties, i.e., one cannot be forced to sign a separation agreement.